From my father in law John DeFrain PhD.
As we say in family studies, there are two great secrets in the 21st century: 1) that everyone suffers, and 2) that suffering can be a catalyst for growth.
And as Kay King’s wife Cel said a few weeks before she died of breast cancer at age 66: “Well, Kay, this looks like another AFOG to me.”
Kay responded, “Cel, what’s an AFOG?”
“Another Fucking Opportunity for Growth.”